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Meeting A Girlfriend Online
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I can’t tell you how many messages and e-mails I get from guys who always pursue women only to end up in the dreaded friends zone.
Has this happened to you?
No matter how much you want to avoid it you always end up with a girl saying things like:
“I only like you as a friend”
“Can we just be friends?”
“I don’t see you in that way”
Or maybe it’s more annoying than that, perhaps you are courting a girl that you really like but she keeps telling that she likes OTHER GUYS.
In other words she notices practically every other guy around her EXCEPT for you?
The friends zone is a place where a lot of guys end up and it’s a dangerous place to keep getting stuck in. And once you go down a route with a girl there’s almost no hope in turning back and then going back down the correct direction with her. Because in most cases if a girl categorises you as ‘friend material’ then sometimes it can be hard to turn yourself back into ‘boyfriend material’
If you want to avoid getting into the friends zone you need to start to trigger attraction in the girl. Most guys do not know how to do this and exhibit behaviour or show a girl actions that never come close the pushing the correct buttons.
You have to realise that a girl does not choose whether she likes you as a friend or not. She thinks she is choosing but really she’s not, it’s simply a case that you haven’t triggered attraction within her. If you begin to learn how to trigger attraction in women then no matter how hard she tries to put you in the friends zone she won’t be able to.
She’ll want more.
So how do we trigger attraction and totally steer clear of the friends zone?
Let’s just say most men seek a relationship with a girl incorrectly right from the start.
What they do is that they exhibit ‘relationship’ type behviour…
What I mean is that guys do things that BOYFRIENDS do. They buy gifts, they spend time with the girl, they constantly call the girl or are there for the girl 24/7.
I know what you’re thinking…
You’re thinking I’m weird… but other than that you’re thinking…
“But if I want her to be my girlfriend I have to act like a boyfriend”
To me, that makes logical sense.. if you want to be her boyfriend then why don’t you do boyfriend stuff..
But it’s TOTALLY the WRONG APPROACH.
Since I’ve started to spend more time with women in relationships or even as friends I’ve come to the realisation that the process of creating attraction in a woman – getting a woman to like you for more than just friends – is COUNTER INTUITIVE.
What I mean is that WHAT YOU THINK CREATES ATTRACTION…. DOESN’T.
Buying gifts for a girl and sucking up to her doesn’t create attraction and if you keep doing this you will almost never get the girl you want and always settle for second best.
The key thing is that if you keep ending up in the friends zone you MUST STOP acting or treating a girl as if you are ALREADY in a relationship with her. You must find a new approach because it means you don’t quite fully understand how to attract women.
Look at it this way…
Have you always noticed how the JERK always ends up with women. Sometimes he ends up with the hottest women. Isn’t it weird? It’s a little bit annoying too if you ask me..
But have you noticed that JERK’s aren’t nice to women? And that they don’t show ‘good’ boyfriend behaviour? Do you think a JERK make a good boyfriend?
Let me ask you a question.
Do jerk’s ever spend a lot of time TRYING to get women? Can you imagine them doing what you’ve tried so far?
I believe that there’s some trait that’s jerks show that get girls to like them.
By the way I’m not saying go out and act like a JERK. I really do believe that Jerks attract women ACCIDENTALLY. In other words it’s not as if they are good with women or that they understand women better than you or I. It’s just that it’s a certain way of behaving that attracts women.
Over time I’ve learnt what that is and I’ve used it myself to create attraction in some of the best women around. And the AMAZING THING is that you don’t have to be a Jerk either.
I hope I’ve made it clear that to attract women you do not have to be a jerk. You just have to take some of the things that jerks do to avoid the friendzone.
And once you’ve created attraction and have the girl as your girlfriend.
THEN you can exhibit relationship type behaviour – spend time with her, call her, buy her gifts etc.
So if you want to avoid the friends zone you need to do all you can to avoid relationship type behaviour and exhibit the traits that will really cause a woman to be attracted to you.Remember you are a special person and you deserve to be an important part in any girls life. You deserve to be more than just friends..and you can be more than that. You just need a new approach.