Now, first things first I want to ask you a question:
What do you think is the best way to ask a girl out?
Have you really thought about it?
Over the years since I decided to get this area of my life handled, I went through countless times where I was repeatedly getting rejected, luckily for me this no longer happens but at the time it was tough.
The thing is, the part where I got rejected most was when I asked a girl out.
And I mean literally asking a girl out, I would often use the famous line:
“Would you like to go out sometime?”
And this was the part I would get the polite ‘no’ or ‘sorry, I’m busy.’
So rather than take these constant failures and let them destroy my life I made the decision to learn from my failures. Read more…
As we surge into the era of the internet we’ve become more and more accustomed to getting and learning information online. It’s the same when we want to learn about what attracts women. There are now countless sites and information giving us the key techniques and strategies for picking up women.
We are now in a situation where we cannot complain that there isn’t enough information on the subject, there’s literally tons of it, yet despite the mass information out there many of us men still don’t know what it takes to become attractive to the opposite sex.
More specifically, we try everything that we think works yet nothing seems to work. I’ve found myself in endless situations where I’ve tried to impress a woman by being a cool guy that she wants or the nice guy who’s always there for her – the downside was not once did any of these things work. I am sure that there are many other guys who are in this position right now who experience the same results as myself.
For me, this cycle of rejection and of a girl always being interested in some else continued for as long as I kept doing these things that are SUPPOSED to attract women. That was the big ‘aha’ moment, that was the moment that really excelled my understanding and sparked my interest into finding out what really did attract women. Read more…
It’s a well known fact that there are a lot of guys who are making a much harder time of attracting women to them than it really is. It’s not uncommon to experience the natural feelings of total helplessness and frustration when whatever you try to do to get a woman to look your way, and she doesn’t. Rather, she moves in the total opposite direction. Not good.
I know this feeling very well myself having experienced it day after day for years. Since I’ve been getting myself more acquainted with the topic of attraction, I’ve thankfully turned this fact right on it’s head and I now enjoy a much better life free of these worries.
I look at men today who struggle with women, then I compared myself to how I was back then too and I’ve noticed that one of the major factors that keep all us men down is what we actually thinks attract women.
I’d wager that if you asked any guy who currently struggles with women, what the main things that are attract women are, they will say ‘looks’, ‘money’ and fame.
I’m here to tell that I don’t necessarily believe that looks, money and fame contribute to overall attraction. As I Read more…
Through life you’ve probably seen this guy known as the High Status Male. In most cases you probably didn’t even know it was ‘him’ you were looking at.
Do you remember the guy who had all the girls around him?
The guy that always had his choice of the field of women?
I bet that in most cases you even cursed his luck with women. I myself admit that I did my own bit of cursing to a guy such as this and I’d also go over the areas in life I was better than him so that I could look down at him. Oh, and by the way there wasn’t much that I was better than him at.
The High Status Male is somebody you should model ourselves on if you want the following things:
- To attract women even when you aren’t trying
- To attract the best women who are truly 10 of 10 and in the highest league. Read more…