I’ve had to make the title for this article slightly longer than I normally would mainly to get the attention of a large proportion of men who thinks these traits are what is necessary to attract women, namely, looks, money and fame.

Certainly the first two traits, looks and money are things that most men believe women will flock to regardless of how much the guy is an asshole or a jerk. Most men, and certainly I did a few years ago, pray for the day that a windfall of money would fall on their lap so that women would spot me from afar and rush over to me pleading for a date. Or perhaps you may have even find yourself saying ‘if only I had been born with better looks,’ you may have said this the last time you saw a beautiful woman you wanted to talk to but just couldn’t bring yourself to walk up to her and make a move.

As I always say in all my writing such beliefs are not true, and are purely fantasy. It doesn’t matter if you are average looking with a modest monthly paycheck, you can attract a total ‘ten’ of a woman.

Even as you read this now, you may think that that your (more…)